Sunday, December 27, 2015

Invest in the Broken

Perhaps "innovation" should be a stronger word in my vocabulary for this coming year. As my son destroyed another small gift I had just given him for Christmas, I thought many thoughts, but one that floated through I was chastising myself for buying him something that had the potential of being just another thing he destroyed within minutes.

Yes, he did it with no provocation except curiosity that I know he can't quite resist in such items, so why do I persist in purchasing them for him? Because I want to give him something that has potential to please him also. Maybe that moment of destruction also pleases him more than I know---more than hanging on to the thing and playing with it.

I, personally, don't get it. I do think back to when I gave a new doll given to me for Christmas a "hair cut", so I suppose that is some of the same. I remember taking a marker to one also. Beheading Barbies was always a good time, if nothing else to irritate my sister. He got a reaction from me and that alone is probably worth the price of admission. I could see my reaction was highly entertaining to him.

I made sure the item was only about $4 on sale and so my thought was if he did destroy it, I wouldn't be too broken up about it. It sure made a mess and may have stained the couch and his clothes to the point of no return, but we'll see about that too. To him it doesn't matter of the expense, who gave it to him, or if it is sentimental----there is no sentiment to him.

This summer he destroyed a garden gnome a student had given me and a garden statue that my husband had given me. I was rather upset and taken aback that he'd done that. The gnome was sentimental and that little statue I'd grown fond of being there all these years. Both were memory markers that I'd look at and think of certain times. They were in my garden and were mine. He took them and smashed them to pieces. I was angry. They were just things, but that he took them and just destroyed them for no reason was what was beyond my thinking.

The "Let It Go" theme song is playing in my head, but it is difficult to let go of wanting to hang on to times and things that represent something. So, what did this little $4 gift represent? Simply a gift from me. He hangs on to none of them that I give him or plays with much of any of them----he simply dismantles them and I put them into the trash can. I keep handing him gifts great and small and he keeps taking them apart to find what is inside.

I guess that is part of what he'll always do. He goes deep into any subject to find the furthest he can go on the inside. He wants to know how everything works. 

I think I should do what a friend of mine with his autistic son does and go to Goodwill and garage sales finding interesting electronics, toasters, clocks, etc...and hands him a few tools so he can simply "take it apart". As far as I know, this particular child has never put anything back together, but he is an expert at taking stuff apart and it makes him really, really happy. They are never short for screws, nails, or other such hardware in that family.

I do want to see him happy about the gifts I give him. Perhaps, I shouldn't care how that happiness comes. I want him to keep exploring what is on the inside. I think I haven't explored that enough when it comes to objects in my life, so often I don't understand how to repair them when they break. Maybe, he will study what he destroys and some day to find a way to put it all back together.

He is excited for his doctor's appointment tomorrow to discuss medicine with our doctor. His fascination at the moment is in the disease angle of it all not into the healing parts. I hope if he studies it in depth though, the healing will take place. If nothing else, he'd make a great surgeon, find what it is and cut it out! It is the sewing up part that will take a bit more practice.

P.S. I was going to post pictures of the broken gnome that I did take at one point when I was really mad, but I must have purged them in order to "let it go". Good for me!



Thursday, December 10, 2015

Windstorm of emotions coming through....

Around Christmas friends and acquaintances always ask what my plans for the holidays are and they ask about my family. Or they ask if my mother is going to come see us, because they don’t know me and their mother is flying in and they have it on the brain. It is always a little bit of an awkward silence after I confess, “No, my Mom passed away “x” number of years ago.”
It was Christmas time, I remember the lights and decorations up as we drove through town in our tiny Missouri town after the funeral. The lights blurred in the reds, yellows, and greens like a water color as I cried my eyes out. I remember looking out the car window thinking, “Why is there so much color?” I wanted to drain it all away to match my mood.
It was surreal to think of her gone. For about 5 years after her death, I dreamed often she wasn’t gone. We weren’t close, but she was my Mom and there is something indefinable that I miss about her---her being here.
17 years ago today, Mom, you passed away and I was so glad you were out of tremendous pain, but I was also so sad to know you’d left, oh too soon. I miss you, Mommy!

Mother, December 10th
I sat down and it settled in
I scheduled work today to distract me
I was so busy until the children’s voices
rang out with today’s date
just a day to most
a birthday to some
a marriage proposal to others
a job promotion
an encouraging word
a first book published
a difficult test conquered
a love gained and lost
a mile walked or run for the first time
a dry pair of socks given to someone living in the pouring rain
a memory floating on a sea of mixed feelings
so deep like paint that is stirred after sitting
reveals its true shades
the beauty ready to be spread
part of a picture captured
created out of using
not wallowing,
thick like stucco
Delicate brush strokes
wire thin, part of the bigger picture
the date tells me this is the day
this is the day you left
you wandered off this coil
no longer to be called mother, sister, or lover
by anyone except in passing
many stories repeated at first
then the second verse
is a little less, but still conveys
your life story
and the third verse often skipped
is the heart of the song
I can’t skip it
I let it ring out
If only to myself
But sing as if everyone can hear it
And then finish on the fourth
As to the hope I find,
In knowing where you are
And where we might meet again,
On this day to myself, I sing the whole song,
this song sailing though
as wind gusts blowing
sometimes raging surprisingly powerful
to the delight of those
that speak not your name often
Except now
on this day
this date
today
we sing



Saturday, August 15, 2015

Slow traffic and sunsets....

A few thoughts that were rattling around my head as I sat on traffic on the way home from Joni and Friends Camp in Southern Oregon. The whole experience makes me reflect on disability, faith, present, future, and always on God. How does all this fit together?
The poem I had in my head was a bit better than the one I wrote down finally when I returned home, but the bones of it are still there and reflecting what I was musing. A couple of the lines that I wanted did make it in there too. I am thankful for a place to reflect about the wonder of this journey with other families of faith that “get it”.

My Distant Playhouse
Rattling along the highway
Toward our home we live in and out of
Somewhere in the middle distance is a house
And in it is our stuff that keeps it all familiar and somewhat fun
In my rear view mirror, I am stunned
By a blaze of sunset burning bright
So intense it catches my breath at the sight
I can’t take my eyes off the brilliant colors drawing me in
To this day that was and what I never saw
Or could have been
Because before me is pure murky soup
The Pacific Northwest spitting and sputtering our day’s end
A silent close, hemmed in with fog
punctuated quietly with constant drizzle
Tires screech on the pavement
and I startle aware of the car in front
Breaking hard at the sudden slow down
Red angry brake lights
Grab my attention away from the day dream
As it often does
The scene of “what could have been” dancing picturesque
Until reality, slams on the breaks
As sound, sight, and sensations return
Telling me where I am and where I’m headed
Not for sex on a sunset beach
Oh no, my sights are set on this home
Somewhere in the middle distance
miles away through heavy traffic
I know there is a better home
At least, this is what I believe
I repeat it over and over again
Willing myself to tear my sight away
From wishes or wants
To what is and what will be
Keep driving and be faithful to the course
The slow-downs don’t matter as I will arrive
Beyond the traffic and all of it
I will melt into an even more perfect place
Falling out misshapen as I am
Out of that tight mold I’ve squeezed myself into
One day I won’t need maps or to pay such close attention
To details of doctors or behavior plans or diets or displaced dreams
Far above the low lying clouds I’ll be
And I’ll know face to face God loves me
See clearly His wonder, beauty
I’m held fast in His grace
By his side
I will have won the race
Others with me too
Like my little Boo
There we all will be ordinary people
Yet still very special with no needs at all

In our home at play

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Speaking Up

All people have feelings. Not all people are heard or valued or seen as valuable. I wish with all my heart I could change this and all persons would be valued and felt their worth. It is hard to communicate honest intentions on the internet, but in days gone by it was just as difficult as it is a human flaw to struggle to communicate clearly. To empathize through a few words is an art and a delicate balance.

In this day and age when opinions are like popcorn, it is so easy to fall into a strong voice that pulls you one way or the next not really having any experience with whatever that voice is telling you about. We munch on the delicious popcorn until we often are sick and vomit it back up all over each other and then it isn’t as good as when we ate it, is it? This is how the broad subject of autism, if I can even call it a just a subject, feels like sometimes when it is discussed en masse. It is discovered, defamed, some find it dreary or pitiful to talk about, but how few seem to know it up close and personal, but oh yes, everyone has an opinion about it more and more.

I struggle as a parent of an autistic child when reading angry blogs of autistic adults. I do read them even though there is a lot of blame, shame, and bile thrown at the feet of parents. Yes, these are the people living day to day with autism. They should have plenty of opinions, but where I shudder is when they seem to want to be the voice for the entire spectrum. It is called a spectrum for a reason. There are people that are at every stop on that broad spectrum. Still, it is those angry voices make me want to gather up all those hurt souls and comfort them. To tell the screamers that they are valued and that I do recognize their voice, struggle, and often brilliance. And some of them, I suspect are valued greatly, even though they scream about how they were parented; they are valued by those same parents that seem so very evil to them. There are evil parents out there and not all parents of autistics are saints, but to throw all of us in one bag just as autistics they say they have been thrown into one bargain bin is wrong.

We are all people. We all have rights, feelings, and voices. Some autistics use those voices very well and some, well, scream a lot about being wronged just as much as parents “complain” about their life bringing up an autistic. Autistics call parents that complain disgusting and assume that the parents just want pity and attention. This is a delicate subject that yes, some writing is for attention seekers, but some are trying to honestly figure out what to do and so they report what goes on through their own eyes trying to see through the autistic in their household’s eyes. I know because that is what I do.

What about the autistics that have no voice? None. They don’t write, they don’t mature, and they don’t have that capacity to scream about their lives, because they live day to day to day surviving. There are those that exist on the spectrum. Their voices are locked up or hidden or undiscovered by those of us that do have voices. Who speaks for them or with them?

I see tireless parents advocating for those autistics that cannot speak. Assistants, doctors, and therapists giving over their voice for the voiceless and gladly doing it-----not for praise, or honor or some prize, but to find the person inside they have come to love, honor and respect. These unsung heroes do exist----the voiceless autistic and the one who selflessly cares for them do exist. I know them. They are both such strong people that I admire. One struggling against the body and brain they are in and the other trying so hard to help that body and brain of the one they serve and fiercely love to function better. A little progress made is triumphant. I hope technology advances to the point we can hear those voices. There is a voice inside each and every one of them. I see it.

I once wrote a play about three very different kinds of voiceless autistics and the three different outcomes of them with their parents. I was praised by many who knew nothing about autism and some that knew a lot. Then there was a group of autistics that accused me after the play ran of not knowing or writing about autism at all. I was asked to write for the voiceless specifically by a loving parent and I was screamed at from afar by an autistic that had not seen the play but had it reported to him by an unreliable witness. And that group of autistics, which none of them had seen it, blogged and blogged and screamed and screamed until I was overwhelmed and shut down and stopped working on my play.

We each come from a different perspective and understanding. I am not autistic, but as a parent, I have some understanding of autism. I say some. I am not at all an expert on the subject. Some things I merely guess about from observing my son and listening to him and to others on the spectrum that I meet. But to say that parents should have no voice or opinion or even say they don’t know anything about autism is ludicrous. I wish more autistics that do write would write about what it is they face, see, feel, and need. More first-hand accounts are what we need and then we parents can stop guessing. I did challenge the screamers to write their own play and I’m still waiting for it. I’d support it in a heartbeat.

Like I said, I mostly read complaints about what they’ve perceived as wrongs and how they are not listened to. I’m listening and so are a lot of others that really want to know about what autistics think on a day to day basis. What would make this world better for autistics, right here and right now? That is what I want to know. How can parents bring their autistic children up to be strong advocators for themselves? What do we parents need to know? I don’t want to hear a litany of complaints----I’ll stop it if you will----I want to hear if autistics have solutions or suggestions even of what I can or could change or that needs to change for autistics to feel freer, fuller, and more at peace. This is what I want to know.

I really do want to know and I need so desperately to know. My son can’t tell me. He’s getting better at communicating, but not yet. He has a lot to say and I listen to all of it. I wait to hear what I can do better to help him. I hope he can tell me without feeling the need to shout me down to do it. I love him and want the very best for his life and childhood. I want him to learn his worth is priceless just as he is now and always. I am listening. I am waiting for his voice to shout good things about being autistic and to know that is has great value all over this world. I say yes to integration, not separation and yes to accommodation not intimidation or exclusion. We need to find more ways to bridge the gap as it is deep and wide in more ways than most “typicals” realize. That I do get more and more and more.


Listening to the underlying words that were being screamed at me about my play, I think I heard the issues. I hope I did and do. I have wrestled with it for two years. As I begin to rewrite my play and stretch it and knead it into another shape, one that I pray is better and has a stronger voice that advocates for those without voices. I hope it speaks for autistics to live a good life, and that the rewrite will come down so firmly on the side of hope there can be no misinterpretations. I often go back to slog through all the popcorn to find the kernels of truth that created all this fluff to begin with. What needs to be said? What is that voice? Can I try to write as honestly as I can and represent what I am not, but what I care so much about? I will try. Pray with me as I try. As it needs to be said.

Saturday, May 16, 2015

Musical Memories

Last night my husband and I got to go out on a date to the Seattle Symphony. It was glorious music of Purcell, Handel, Bach, and Vivaldi. Incredible healing music after the week we'd had with our son's school and just trying to make decisions and the hectic life of work this week. We were both so tired, but sat there soaking in the sumptuous sounds surrounding us. I can go on and on about the skill of this world class symphony that we have in Seattle, but there was much more that stood out to me.

Sense memory is a powerful thing and mixed with the beauty was recognition of where I was when I first heard some of that music. The Bach took me back to me slipping on my headphones after class at boarding school to lie down for a nap. I'd often listen to Handel or Bach as they would support my flagging energy into a deeper comforting sleep. Don't get me wrong, I loved the music, but I was very ill at the time and in a lot of pain with a stomach ulcer and so feeling isolated---it was comfort and renewed my energy to hear that music.

The Vivaldi was a surprise as my oldest brother David's face popped into my head as soon as the music began. I didn't associate this piece with him, but should have as I realized I first heard it when he was in college singing with his college choir. He was so happy after that performance and during it singing away in the tenor section. He talked about how fun it was to sing the "Gloria". As I was listening last night, my subconscious recognized it first as small tears leaked out of the corners of my eyes and down my face. I could see him in my minds eye being happy and it made the music so much sweeter.

One of the Vivaldi pieces, a duet by the glorious soprano and alto soloists, "Laudamus te" was sung at our wedding also. That was a wonderful reminder how music can bring you to a time of remembering those beginnings that set you up in life. I leaned into Martin as he smiled at me with the recognition of enjoying this moment together.

I'm still thinking about that music as I get  ready for bed tonight. Thinking about what we are singing at church tomorrow. What does that mean week after week? Where does it take my spirit? I look to lean into the sound and support of the music to bring me to a renewed space---a place of comfort.

"Highest renew your goodness
every morning from now on....
He will increase in us
what he has promised us out of grace,
so that we trust fast in Him,
abandon ourselves completely to Him,
rely on Him within our hearts,
so that our heart, will, and mind
depend strongly on HIm:
therefore we sing at this time:
Amen, we shall succeed, if we
believe from the depths of our hearts.
Alleluia!"

----Bach : Cantata No. 51, "Jauchzett Gott in allen Landen!" BWV 51 (Sung by a bird-like soprano beautifully---Ms. Amanda Forsythe---I applaud you!)

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

If only chickens could be assistant animals....

Yesterday was focused on one thing, the meeting at school to reinstate our son. Now, if you have a kiddo who isn’t in Special Ed, you might be thinking that we met with one or two people. Oh no, there were seven adults plus Martin and I around that table. It was tense just listening to the carefully laid out meeting and account of exactly what happened last week. It is hard to listen to missteps and new information and not feel ambushed by this information.

What was the upshot of the meeting? That we put yet another new plan in place to try to help the boy know what the plan is ahead of time so he doesn’t get surprised at how people react when things go awry. This time the plan is of a specific script that is followed, like a flow chart, for him to know what will be his only two choices each step of the way. Plus, they are talking about having a safe place for him that is a sensory soothing tent (one of the ideas floated) that he can go to escape and cool down. This plan sounds good. It really does, but it was all the talk around it that gave us pause.

I sat there listening feeling heavy about the way we all talk about my son. I was so glad we had gotten a hold of a babysitter and that he was far away from this room. I know he has always heard us and others speak right in front of him as this is the nature of therapy, school, and daily encounters with the world around us. One therapist encourages me not to put too much adult thinking upon him as she points out he had the emotional thinking of a toddler most of time, especially in moments of stress. However, it is his moments of deep insight that tells me so much more is going on in his mind then I can even guess and it drags his intense emotions along with it when he strikes at an idea often.

He talked to me about his worries the night before the meeting. Right before bed he was just lying with his face down in his bean bag chair not saying a word. I always know to check on him when he is super quiet.
ME: Are you listening to the chicks?
(He rolls over and looks at me and then into the chick’s box then flops back down into the bag.)
ME: Their soft peeps are nice, huh? Relaxing.
BOY: Yeah. Yeah…you…you…you know chicks are relaxing. No chicks at school.
ME: Yes, but you can come home and relax with them.
(He rolls away and puts his face back into the bean bag)
ME: Can I ask you something?
BOY: Yes.
ME: Are you worried about school? You seem worried.
BOY: Mama, I am worried.
ME: About school?
BOY: Do chicks go to school?
ME: No, they grow and learn by living and God made them a certain way and they just know it. They know what to do naturally. They have pretty tiny brains. Do you know why you go to school?
BOY: I don’t know.
ME: We’ve talked about it before, but okay, it is for you to learn things you might not learn on your own---to stretch your mind and hopefully make friends. And you train to have a job one day.
BOY: Does…does everyone have to have a job? What happens if you don’t work?
ME: Well, not everyone has a job, but those that don’t have to be taken care of somehow. People have jobs to have money for one thing.
BOY: What is money?
ME: You know what money is. It is the currency that we use to pay for things we need or want, but hopefully mostly needs.
BOY: Does everyone have money?
ME: No, not everyone has money, but we all have to live somehow. We pay for this house with money we earn from our jobs. We pay for the food we eat and what the chicks eat. We pay for electricity to run the computers, radio, and things like these lights. That all takes money which we get from our work that we get paid to do and we went to school to learn what to do for our jobs.
BOY: What…what if…if…if I don’t get a job?
ME: I think you can get one if you want to. I believe you are capable of doing anything you set your mind to doing including going to school and getting a job.
BOY: I don’t know.
ME: I believe you’ll have a job one day when you are ready and I know whatever it is you’ll be good at your job. Very good!
BOY: What is a job?
Then we talked about all the possibilities of career paths and what he is studying at school that possibly relates to meteorologist, video game composer, or historian plus several variants of this. Then he brought it back to the chicks.
BOY: Mama, I can’t have a rooster unless I am on a farm. What would happen, if I were a farmer?
ME: Then I know you’d have a few roosters around.
BOY: What happens 21 days after a rooster is there?
ME: Chicks!
(At this he smiled and I got him to start on his bedtime routine).

As I was putting him to bed, he asked me about the meeting and why he had to have a babysitter. I told him I didn’t want him to feel horrible about us talking about him and him hearing all of that. I told him we would talk about what happened the other day and what to do about him getting through fourth grade. I told him he could come and in the near future he probably would participate in these meetings. He decided he didn’t want to come after all.

In our meeting I was surprised that the principal said that he hadn’t seen behavior like this from a child in the fourteen years he had been at this school. Other “experts” in the room also expressed similar statements saying how our son is redefining what is needed in place for the district. This comment had a harder edge to it then I was used to hearing. It is not something you want to hear about your child.

It sent me down the path of if they talk this way about him in general, what do his peers think? How does this prejudice other teachers or aids that don’t know him well, but encounter him occasionally? At this point they were batting around the idea of not reinstating him until they had an all staff meeting essentially to talk about how to handle him. (Remember, there are only five weeks left in the school year). They were talking one, two, maybe three weeks out---then school would be essentially over.

This really made me queasy and I wanted to shout, “He’s one little boy! He’s not toxic waste that you need to have disposal procedures in place! You sound like you’re ready to throw him away!” But, I didn’t and someone sensible squashed the idea of this all staff meeting. Instead a memo will go out with who to call to help if it looks like there is situation with him and a few words about not engaging him. That still felt….ugh….just ugh….

These conversations made me feel the weight of his worries settle in from the surrounding school walls. It felt closed off not open to life and light that I would expect in this setting. I understood where his thoughts of jail come from now---to be imprisoned by what others believe about you.

It gave me a real “aha” moment about autism in general and what are the indescribable barriers that many who are autistic adults talk about such feelings. Many analyze their young adulthood and look back on what it is to grow up autistic—where everyone talks about you. Many express great anger about it and decry the feelings of “less than”. I see what that must feel like.


My tears never came though, I felt like crying, walking out of that room. My grief felt dry and hot---fueled by anger at everything I felt at what I’d heard. I could hear my son saying, “That’s not right! That’s not fair!” So many times I’ve asked him, “What’s not fair?” And he would just make sounds because he had no words to answer. I had a tiny rain drop of understanding that it all isn’t fair in that the world works in a certain way and the only way he can see to go is not even part of this path, so he thinks. He’s right; I can see how that seems unjust. 

They are going to try to put everything in place that he can get back to school in the next two weeks. The autism district experts are trying hard to get it by middle of next week as they know as time marches on him wanting to return at all also fades with time and it is at a pale sliver right now. At least they are helping us shape how to hold onto any progress he makes over the summer.

 I just hope we can get all this theory to possibly work for my boy's sake. In the meantime, he'll continue having what lessons we can get done together while holding chicks on our laps and listening to those soft quiet peeps we love so much.

Friday, May 01, 2015

The Last One for Poetry Month….NaPoWriMo #38 & #39

Well it was April 30th when I wrote the first one, but in a flash I had to write the second one and I’ll be posting now just after midnight….oh well. It was a good month! Here is a super simple poem to end on and then one of my signature rambles in the moment. The month always goes so fast chronicling it this way in poetry. I write a lot even when it isn’t April, I just don’t post them all.
We went to the UW Planetarium tonight for a presentation on the stars and planets. It was nice as it was a special night where families with autistic children could come in for free and hear this presentation and it was supported by the Autism Center there. So it was noisy and had a lot more little ones than I expected, but most of the kiddos were into it and that was fun to see.
I wish I’d had paper with me as I was thinking of doing a poem on the planets, but it had melted away by the time I arrived at home. Instead, I just wrote what I see at night here on a really great star night and then a bit of observation during our "Night Event Under the Stars".

Seeing Stars

When I look into the night sky
I see slurry of cumulus
Blurring out the moon
And all that might be hidden there
I stare intently searching the heavens
For a light or glimmer of life forms
That could be starring back at me
There is a small break
And as one that spake
A new creature tongue
There tenderly hung
Is one tiny particle of light
Shining so bright
Against the odds
Of obscuring obsoleteness
In it I pin my wish
Of another point of light
Laser beaming through the blackness
And coming up for air
That I might too
It happens like the dawn
Slowly the clouds pull
Away the magic curtain
Revealing a most grand treasure
Spread as King Midas might do
Extravagantly scattered pearls
Lining a vast ocean floor
I swim in the richness
Filling up my soul
Pouring over them
From my small spot
But feeling so gigantic
With the universe
And all the galaxies
Mapped out before me

It Happens Under His Stars

Dark eyes and tiny face
Looking up into a projection of space
You cry when they move
And when it stops, you are mesmerized
My son is leaning on me
Hearing the noise of little babies and toddler screeches
He digs into my shoulder
Squeezing my hand
Straining to hear what
Is being presented about Jupiter
I stroke his smooth, soft locks
Hoping my heartbeat will drown out
The sea of tension rising in his body
As the running little boy and sobbing babe
Peak in intensity
He hunkers down against me
Indeed finding my steady beat
This seems to defeat the cacophony
And he sits up ready to comment on Uranus
But Pluto is the one he has questions about
As the knowledgeable grad student
Called it once a planet and then not
My son gravitated towards
“What is the criterion please for a planet?”
The student didn’t really have a good answer
This made my son squirm
like there were ants literally in his pants
He wanted more facts to the matter
Hard as the planet’s surface
To chase the uncertainty of this place away
To paint a sure picture of what is in space
And tune out the other noises
That crumble his inside structure
Facts hold it all up
Like steel girders that
Are the bones of the building
Are inside his brain
But run all the way to his toes
There was another little boy
That was competing for knowing
All the facts by the naming the planets
And what they were composed of
The other little professor complained
That my boy was too quick to answer
So my boy stopped answering
And pulled my arm tighter around him
As he bit his left index finger knuckle hard
As if to say, “I can’t help it, sorry.”
I didn’t want him to be quiet
I wanted him to keep going and going
Like when it is just the three of us
And he is telling us parents
Every single thing he knows about
The universe, history, weather, or video games
It is his to dispense
With a sense of himself
He can feel himself in space this way
It helps him to know he is really here
And that his opinion and knowledge matters
No labels, no barriers, and no one else to tell him differently
He can see it all at once
The big, huge, gigantic picture
His universe on the inside
That tumbles out daily
In facts, figures, and fitful flights of fancy
It is freedom of the highest order
His vast galaxy